Blog Neglect

Hello...

I hope all is well with everyone. I apologize I have been negecting the BLOG! Our family has been a little overwhelmed with life, and we have not found that happy balance to get everything accomplished.

Lou - Is doing amazing with his job! He has only been working with the company since September, and has already been asked to enroll in their Leadership Program, so with in 2 years he will be a managing partner/trainer. I can't state it enough, he has found a great career fit. He seems happy with his job...If only I could be more of a help/support to him...Why:I have been burried with the worries of work: I have taken on new responsibilites at work: I'm working as the NCAA Certification Specialist in the Registrar's Office (interm). I'm taking over for an individual who has been in this position for the last 20 years, and has worked in the Registrar's Office for 30 years. I'm currently interm, because they have to post the job officially, and a lot more details that I won't bother with. So, long story short: I have never felt so hated in my entire life: my current co-works hate me becuase I have been placed in the position but, have not been at BSU for very long: They feel they would be more qualified. I also, have the stress of working with the Athltics Department (I remember why I'm not in the field anymore) I have a family now, who needs my time and attention. I'm a complete outsider and not loved by any department. It's frustrating. But, I have faith I will get through this. I just have to keep reminding myself: ROMANS 8:31 Hope all is well with each of you and your families: I'll post again soon, very soon, with pictures!!!!

JaMarcus is growing so much! I can't believe it he talks/ runs / dances/loves phones/books/ and balls. He throws anything... Or should I say he launches anything. Watch-out for the bottle of baby powder. The other day he took a full bottle of baby powder, and threw it clear across the room. I was stunned, it is heavy! When he throws he pulls it back past his ear and then Voom... it's gone!

I'll do a quick report on Thanksgiving. We last minute went to my family's house for Thanksgiving: All my family was home, WOW there are a bunch of us! Thanksgivng morning we went to my sister Char's School and played basketball in the gym. JaMarcus was a natural. He would take the basketball bend down, then stand up and try to throw the ball through the hoop. He would only get there if he had some help of his All-Star Dad. Our family also tried to play a game of Basketball, Lou would put it into gear if the opposing team (my team) was showing him up a bit. But Lou was the "real" basketball star of the game. Later in the after-noon we took family pictures, it has been a while since our last family picture, and the family has grown the last 7 years. We enjoyed a great thanksgiving dinner that evening. And our family traveld back to Boise Friday. We enjoyed being with the family, and wanted it to stay that way: Plus we were able to have a weekend and were able to enjoy the holidy festivities of Boise: Parade/Tree Lighting/Stampede Opening Basketball Game!

Days Without Dad- Husband

This last week, Lou went to Rock Island, Illinois, for work trainning. Wow! I have a huge respect for single parents! JaMarcus did not go to bed until 10:30-11:00 each night.. he tried to stay up for Dad to come home....So, we had a long 4 nights and 5 days.... We survived! And we were both excited for him to come home! And thankful for the last 2 nights of full sleep!

Lou still loves his job/career... We still love our new church home. And I still like my job but, hate being away from JaMarcus. I thought it would get easier being away from JaMarcus durring the work week, but it gets harder and harder each day/week/month. I'm pretty sure I drive Lou and Angela (my friend who watches JaMarcus) crazy... with my "mad mind mommy moments". Just pray for me!

Just want to thank Lou for our Family Night ... Last Friday... Lou and JaMarcus picked me up from work and we went Down-Town for Dinner. It was nice ( I wanted Mexican.. but enjoyed the itallian food we ate.) The best part of the whole night... was our after dinner walk. JaMarcus thought he was so cool because we let him walk down the sidwalks of down-town. He waved at all the ladies and stopped to watch the baseball game on the T.V. I was in total awe of my little one. A bit upset that I was over-looked (people only noticed Lou and JaMarcus) not me the Mom and Wife!

Alright... one last gripe! I was warned but did not think it would happen to me (I was in denial) but reality has hit..... I cannot stand it when people ask me if I adopted JaMarcus. So, in case anyone thinks I adopted JaMarcus.... I didn't he is mine.... I did not get this lovely body... without pregnancy! And doesn't he look like me?

Pray all is well with each of you!!!!!

ON THE MOVE...

Alright so JaMarcus has been walking since August 14th! I know he is a pro at it now that I am writing about it a month later! He is even happier (didn't know it was possible) since he has been walking and discovering more about his world! He is keeping his Mom and Dad busy! And his newest thing! FOOTBALL STANCE! Last friday night (Sept 12) I had a work picnic and there were kids practicing grid kid football at the park. JaMarcus was mezmorized he watched them intently... so Satruday and Sunday football was on in the house.. And we noticed that when the players would go to the line of scrimmage JaMarcus would bend-down and put one hand down in front of him... So, we now ask JaMarcus to "do the football stance" and he drops down into position.. then he jumps up and claps... I guess I got my future Florida Full-Back after-all.

Louis: (Jamar) has found the career that he has been looking for: September 2nd Lou started a new job as an Financial Advisor for Modern Woodmen of America. I have never seen Lou so happy. He goes to work happy, comes home happy, and is happy when he calls me in the middle of the day! Lou gets to start each day at work with the pledge of allegiance and a group prayer. Lou meets new clients and if he is not able to help them in the money world he is able to help them with their spiritual world... he has been able to pray with individuals and give them a boost just by getting to know the Jesus that is inside of him. Lou has really found a good fit for himself.

Our family has also taken a big leap of faith! After faithful prayer/fasting / and searching God's word we have decided to attend another church. This has been the most difficult decision Lou has made for our family since we have been married. We have been attending Miracle Temple Church of God in Christ (Boise). When we lived in Idaho Falls we attended New Covenant Church of God in Christ. We learned a lot, grew a bunch spiritually, and made many new friendships (which made leaving even harder) we tried to find every reason to stay and continue even though we knew it was not right for us to stay. I had been batteling with this since Janurary and Lou the last few months. So, not a quick choice by any means. But, we have moved to another level in spirituality. We are being held to a higher accountability. We are building a better relationship with Christ and learning his stories. We are learning and understanding the bible, moving away from people/relegion and moving more toward relationship, which we had lost our focus: Our focus was on Lou getting his Ministers Lisence. We were working on that, and so we lost what it is all about: Jesus and the "good news" We need to re-focus on Jesus, and so we took a leap of faith! And I understand the scripture: "His Yoke is Easy and his Burden is Light". Sunday was our first day at the new church:Trinity Fellowship. It was the first Sunday in two years that I felt church was not a burden. I could write about this and could say more.. but God Answered my prayer: And my burden is light!

JaMarcus In Action

Check out our videos of JaMarcus! This is JaMarcus and his friend Sydnee. Sydnee's Mom watches JaMarcus while his Mom and Dad are at work. JaMarcus really likes to go hang out with Sydnee. The first video, JaMarcus is being a bit of a bully. And the second video... his soft-side comes out. Sydnee is a week older than JaMarcus.

Huge thanks to Pete and Angela for the videos/pictures. And also a huge thanks to you Angela for taking such great care of JaMarcus. We know he is in good watch and care and we appreciate you so much!

Tears of Joy

I was just reading a few of my past blogs...and I'm just so amazed at how God has blessed me and my family. I don't know how to express it... I hold back so much of the Journey that Lou and I have been on/through the past 3 years... because of embarassment/pride/etc... but one day you'll all read it in a book.

JaMarcus update.. Joys that brought tears to my eyes... About a month ago, JaMarcus and I were just chillin' on the couch, and he out of no where got the giggles... He was laughing so hard (the deep gut belly kind of laugh) that he puked... And then he kept on laughing... I was laughing right along with him, just brought tears of happiness that just his mom could make him laugh, and to realize that God gave me what I asked for... A Happy Healthy Baby. So, last week, I think last week.... I don't know it was still July... JaMarcus took his first real steps.. He has been wanting to walk for a long time but just has not wanted to let go... Well, he finally let go... He took 3 steps towards me from the couch to Mom over and over.. then Dad came home and JaMarcus showed off his new stuff.... I just cried.... He still likes to take a step or two fall to his bum... and then he scoots to wherever he can stand up... Ohh... did I not let that seceret out? My little boy scoots... not much of a crawler but scoots on him bum all over the place.. He's pretty fast too... If we can figure it out we'll put a snap-it on the blog for you all to view.

PERFECT 1st BIRTHDAY!!

JaMarcus is off to a great start with great birthdays! The day was perfect! Grandma Andrus Aunt Char, Aunt Steph, Cousins: Matasia, Keysha, Alyssa, and Jacklyn... drove up from Idaho Falls to shower him with gifts, then we went to the Mall... to get JaMarcus' pictures taken for the big day, we met Grandma Gert and Grandpa Ben (who had driven up from Henderson, NV ) and the Grandma's watched as JaMarcus grinned big for the camera...he loved to smile, giggle, and play, and cried when the photo shoot was over (He must take after his Dad...when it comes to pictures... loves the camera... and always a great picture). After pictures we neglected Dad who was at work (forgot to take him lunch) and we went Down Town for birthday lunch at the Spaghetti Factory...JaMarcus had a great time making an enormous mess... and eating birthday ice-cream. We then went to the park... and some took a nap after the spaghettii lunch and some of us went on a walk...to the friendship bridge.. the brige that goes over the river from the park the the Boise State Camupus to see where I work.... Then it was time to take Lou (the Dad) some lunch... Family visited for a minute and then they were off back to Idaho Falls, and JaMarcus took a quick nap... and his Parents watched the New York Yankees win there game! Then we prepared for the night party at the Boise Hawks Baseball Game. We had many friends show up for the party. The birthday cakes were perfect!!!! Yvonne made the birthday cakes and JaMarcus was covered in cake from head to toe... His Dad pushed his face right into the center of his cake...Poor kid.... JaMarcus got game recognition and was a the star of the night. The game was exciting... and the Boise Hawks won the game... ending the perfect 1st Birthday!

MOVED

Greetings-

I know I've been neglecting the blog... but we are all moved in and setteled in our new home. We have been blessed and appreciate this home so much. I"ll get some pictures up in a week or two (So I guess next month is more likely).

My job is going well at Boise State, I have learned a lot the last month but have a lot more to learn. It is hard being away from JaMarcus for so long, but we have him on the waiting list for the Children's Center at Boise State... So, all prayers are welcome, in helping him to get in. Babysitter-Bouncing is taking a toll on all of us, thankfully it is only Monday-Tuesday-Wednesday - Because Dad (Lou) is with him on Thursday /Friday.

Lou started his on-field announcing for the Boise Hawks (The AAA Baseball Team for Boise)... And he is beyond great! The Crowd/ Season Ticket Holders/ Staff/ General Manager, love him and the excitement he brings to the field! Lou loves it himself.... JaMarcus and I have been to a few games, and are looking forward to a fun-filled baseball summer...In fact that is where we are going to spend his 1st Birthday Party...at the Baseball Park. We have a few pictures attached... ENJOY>>>>>

Hope you all are enjoying your summer!